Dear Expert,

I’ve been dating my man for eight months now. It’s going really well. I spend most nights at his house, we like all the same activities, and he has told me in the past that he is ready for something serious. Things are going pretty quickly. He has even met my entire family. Well, most of my family. Actually, only my mom. I wasn’t there when they met but I think that’s a pretty big step in our relationship. The other day he and I were lying in bed cuddling and he said “I’m fucking your mom.” What does this mean? He is always saying cryptic things like this. Sometimes I wish he would be more straight up. I guess I just want to know: Is he trying to tell me that he loves me?

Signed,

What’s The Deal

 

Dear What’s The Deal,

It sounds to me like your partner is trying to tell you something very important. And the thing he is trying to tell you is that he does love you. Let him know it’s safe to share his feelings by telling him that you love him too.

Signed,

Expert

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